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H.A.T.E.R.S. – Are People Having Anger Towards Everyone Reaching Success

You’ve heard the old saying, “Haters gonna hate”. But exactly why do people seem to hate those who are doing a little bit better or hustling a little bit harder?

It’s been said that hate stems from insecurity, ignorance, and past hurts. But the worst kind of haters are those who seem to show up when you’re finally making your mark in the world, starting to succeed, and are proud of the hard work it took to get you there. Your success doesn’t necessarily need to be the material kind of success but your success could come from a new promotion, getting recognized for your volunteer work or just success with your relationships. It’s anything deemed to be a tiny bit better than what the hater has or does.

So this week’s inspiration is to understand that it’s not you that they hate, but what you’ve been able to accomplish that they haven’t. They tend to hate because they’ve lost sight that success takes work and that there are so many levels of success and that your success doesn’t take away from anybody elses. If there was only room for one star, the sky wouldn’t be filled with them. The most important thing to remember is not to give in to their negativity and to keep working towards your own goals, because …..

How have you dealt with the H.A.T.E.R.S. in your life? Drop us a comment below.

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About Paulette Klein

Paulette is a freelance writer and the creator of She writes and blogs about travel, parenting, relationships, and adjusting to the next chapter of life. With coffee in hand, you will find her searching for her next big adventure or lost somewhere in a shoe store.
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